Set Polite Phrases— Social Lubricants
Fixed social phrases used to maintain harmony. These are memorized set expressions rather than a productive grammar pattern.
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Structure · 形
Fixed phrases (memorized whole).
Examples · 例文
いただきます。
Itadakimasu.
I humbly receive (said before eating).
Humble form; a mandatory phrase before a meal.
お疲れ様でした。
Otsukaresama deshita.
Thank you for your hard work.
Said to colleagues after work or any shared effort.
ごちそうさまでした。
Gochisousama deshita.
Thank you for the meal (said after eating).
The set phrase that closes a meal — the pair to いただきます.
Usage notes · 注意
- すみません literally 'it doesn't end (my apology)' but is used for 'excuse me', 'sorry', and even 'thank you' (acknowledging trouble caused). Context decides the translation.
- After a meal, pair いただきます with ごちそうさまでした (said when finished).
Commonly confused with
The JLPT rarely asks whether you recognise a pattern — it asks which of several similar patterns fits. These are the ones Set is tested against.
vsすみません vs ごめんなさい
ごめんなさい is a pure apology (only 'I'm sorry'); すみません is more versatile, also meaning 'excuse me' and 'thanks for the trouble'.
vsいただきます vs ごちそうさま
いただきます is said BEFORE eating; ごちそうさま(でした) is said AFTER finishing the meal.
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