ないで— Without doing / Instead of doing
Expresses doing something WITHOUT performing another action. Can also be used as a soft negative request ("please don't do"). Different from なくて which states a reason/cause.
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Structure · 形
[Verb nai-form] + で
Examples · 例文
朝ごはんを食べないで学校に行った。
Asagohan wo tabenaide gakkou ni itta.
I went to school without eating breakfast.
食べないで (without eating) + 行った
辞書を使わないで、問題を解いてください。
Jisho wo tsukawanaide, mondai wo toite kudasai.
Please solve the problem without using a dictionary.
使わないで (without using)
電気をつけないでください。
Denki wo tsukenaide kudasai.
Please don't turn on the lights.
ないでください = please don't (soft negative request)
Usage notes · 注意
- ないで vs なくて: ないで = without doing / instead;
- Detail: なくて = because not doing (reason/cause).
- Nuance: 食べないで行った (went without eating) vs 食べなくて困った (was troubled because I didn't eat).
- Detail: ないでください = please don't (request);
- Summary: てはいけない = must not (stronger prohibition).
Commonly confused with
The JLPT rarely asks whether you recognise a pattern — it asks which of several similar patterns fits. These are the ones ないで is tested against.
vsなくて
なくて states a cause/reason ('because ... not') and links states; ないで means doing something 'without' another action, or a soft 'please don't'.
vsずに
ずに is the formal/written equivalent of ないで ('without doing'); note する becomes せずに, not しないで, in that register.
More verb forms
- Potential Form — Can / Be Able To (Verbs)
- がる/がっている — Describing Others' Feelings
- 〜出す (だす) — Abrupt Eruptions
- 〜始める (はじめる) — Intentional Beginnings
- 意向形 (いこうけい) — Volitional Form (Let's / I'll)
- くする / にする — Make something become (a quality)
- ながら — While doing (simultaneous actions, same subject)
- 〜終わる (おわる) — Finish doing / Done with
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